Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Defining Moments

We all have them at some point in our life. A moment so strong, so poignant, so memorable that we pin point it in our memories as the moment our life changed.

My moment happened in January, 2009. I was talking with my knee surgeon again about a recent fall I took that injured my knee again. His assessment was brutal. He wasn't kind. He was honest. And in no uncertain terms he told me, "Joanne, there is nothing I can do for your knee surgically that will make it feel better. The best thing you can do for yourself and your knee is to lose weight. For every pound you lose, you'll remove 7 lbs of pressure on your knee. If you lose weight, it won't hurt as much and you'll be able to move more. There is no other magical cure." I left his office crying. I felt broken. I felt betrayed. I felt like I was at the end of my rope.

It was that afternoon, driving the 2.5 hours home from the surgeon's office, that I decided I was going to look into weight loss surgery. My family doctor had mentioned it a year ago during my annual exam, so I called him back and made an appointment. Within a week of the exam, I was talking with the bariatric surgeon. We determined that I was a good candidate for the Realize Lap Band procedure. Two weeks ago I started my pre-op high protein liquid diet. On Thursday, April 2, 2009, I go in for my surgery.

I'm excited. I'm nervous. I'm a little bit scared. But I'm more excited than anything else. I know this is the right thing. I'm excited that at last I will have a tool that will help me control my eating and I'm determined to stick to the plan. This time I can and will do it. I haven't told anyone about this, but my family and my pastor. I was embarrased to admit that I was so heavy that I needed weight loss surgery to help me lose weight. Posting this in my blog is my first step to "come out of the closet" so to speak. I'll tell others. As they ask. As they begin to notice the changes. But I didn't want to be totally public about it, so for now, only you & my family know.

I was a bit wary about the liquid portion of the diet, but it really hasn't been that bad. Most of the products taste good (slight aftertaste), and those that don't taste good...I just don't use them again. I don't feel hungry and I'm drinking lots of water. Since my consultation I've lost 15 pounds (11 of which are since I started the liquid diet). I'll have to be on this liquid diet for 4 weeks post-surgery, and then will slowly bring solid food back into my diet. I'm looking forward to that day, but until then...I'm content.

Defining moments...a fork in the road....taking the road less travelled.

20 comments:

rmeyfe said...

Good luck!!!

Anonymous said...

I am proud and excited for you.

Will pray that all goes well.

Nora :~}

Msippi said...

Congrats to you! Can't wait to see your progress. I would do it if I could afford it.

Adrienne said...

Good Luck! I am glad for you that your DR. didnt beat around the bush! I hope this all goes well for you!!

Genevieve said...

Good for you! Keep us posted on how you're doin'.

Dolores said...

I'll be thinking of you today, Prayers are with you. Looking forward to seeing your progress.

Nikki said...

Oh wow girl! Congrats on the 15pounds so far. Good luck with the surgery! you'll do great!

Liz said...

Wow! I just got your tally mail and I've very excited for you! I'll be thinkin of you today and praying things go well. Take it easy and don't worry about the package! Just worry about yourself :)

Leah Crowe said...

WOW girl.. I'll be thinking of you on Thursday and say a prayer. Best of luck on this journey! xoxo

Christine said...

thinking of you today!

Jan said...

I'll be thinking about you!!
JanS

kateisner said...

Good for you girl. Good luck, and I will be thinking of you today.

Hugs,

Kat

FirstLady Jen said...

I have a friend who had this procedure done for medical reasons, and she is off all medications now and has lost lots of weight both before and after the procedure. Good luck to you.

Sarah said...

Im thinking of you girl... and very proud of you for making such a hard decision. My prayers are with you today

xoxo

Sara said...

Thinking of you today! Suzuyuki

Laurajean said...

Hey girl...i'm thinking & praying for you today...I can't wait to see your results, I have a close friend that is getting ready to do this procedure too.
Love ya!!!
~Laura

{raisingAlexis} said...

I am so proud of you for blogging about this! good luck and keep us up to date.

{{{HUGS}}}

rachel whetzel said...

I'm so PROUD of you, Joanne!! Can't wait to hear how you are doing!!

latte_grande said...

Wow, honey, how brave you are! I'm excited for you and proud of you....lifting you up in prayer right now!!!

Alicia said...

Thanks for sharing your story I will be wishing the best for you.